1st post, current situation

[corey&trevor]

Hello everyone,

Im a 22 y/o that just moved out to the bay area with my girlfriend. We both just graduated from college back east and she had to start her 1st year medical surgery internship here in CA. Since we moved out here I have been searching and searching for jobs in the biotech field and after about a month and a half still have nothing. This is when the problem began. I have no problem getting things started but when we get too physical i begin to 'lose pressure'.. My girlfriend is absolutely smoking hot and Im a pretty guy myself.

My suspicion is that al of the stress of job hunting is making me really depressed and as a result I just dont feel very sexual. It has happened about 4 times and at this point it is happening because I am sooooo scared that it is going[/I] to happen. Its like Im telling myself STAY UP STAY UP and this cases me to get scared and lose it...

Im just wondering if anyone has any advice for someone that this problem is new to. Im terrified about it happening again and the fact that it is an issue is making me more and more depressed.

someone tell me it's going to be okay! please!

[eduser_admin]

It's going to be ok.

This is normal and called performance anxiety. The more you keep telling yourself to stay up and hard the harder it will be to maintain. You have to relax, this is the most important part of having sex.

I have the same issues and still have trouble surpassing them sometimes. Other times I am completely relaxed and have no problems. How are your erections when you masturbate? Do you watch porn? Have you ever tried meds like Viagra or Cialis

[corey&trevor]

Well since the problem started happening I began to stop watching any pornography and all masturbating to see if it was a problem with overuse. All was fine the next time we layed together but the second time, same thing. I have not tried anything in pill form, do you think this would be the logical progression?

Thank you so much for the advice.

[eduser_admin]

Well, don't resort to pills unless you have to.

How long did you stop watching porn? When I mean stop watching porn I mean cold turkey. This is a must!!! I watched porn for years and could not stop, worse than quitting smoking. So you need to get this out of the way.

Try something natural for your erections first:

Watermelon and Pomegranate a Natural Viagra Quick Online Recipe

Thats a good start. All natural watermelon is known to help blood flow.

Look up some of our post that Flavio has done about Prelox and performance anxiety. There is some good reading there.