My problem sexual anxiety

[ims99]

hi i m 27 years old male

i have erection problem if i get erection it doesnt last long usually my penis is not firmly erected. i have this problem when i was 21 when me and my friend brought a hooker to my house i was never with the woman before. i masturbated at the age of 19 in those days i had very firm erections and wet dreams. so back to that hooker when my friend had sex with her then it was my turn when i got in the room i saw the hooker and her age was 32 i think dont know what happened i couldnt get an erection at that time and i was so embarrassed by that anyway since then my problem started i think its sexual anxiety or whatever i started to feel nervous whenever there was a chance for a sex i was not able to attain erection. then i stopped masturbation for 4 years and i had no wet dream what so ever, if i watch porn i couldnt get erect also after four years i had my masturbation it was good i got firm erection by applying lubricants and healthy semen. so i tried again some times to masturbate but i couldnt attain erection fully.
i have tried to relax my self but it doesnt work. i m worried that i have a girfriend if i want to have sex with her i will face this problem.

i am also a bad smoker , even now i try to jerk off my semen quality is not good its not thick also sometimes yellowish semens come out. i am extremely worried about this what to do? i normally get erection in sleep or in morning when i wake up my penis is firmly erected but it happens in a week or two.
please help me out on this i really need help.
recently i have developed a new problem pain in my right testicle i went to doctor he gave me medicines i was fine then after 6 months the pain came back it stayed for 3 months and now i am fine there is no swelling or lumps in my testicles. so is this erection problem is creating some trouble to me?

suggest me anything that i can get rid of this problem, thanks.

[Flavio]

[...] i normally get erection in sleep or in morning when i wake up my penis is firmly erected but it happens in a week or two.
[...]

This seems to indicate that there's nothing organically wrong with you and your problem may be purely psychological, but only a doctor (urologist) can say for sure.

It probably wasn't a good idea to have your first sexual experience with a prostitute and maybe the memory of that negative experience is now getting in the way of sex. Anyway, psychological ED is easily treatable. Try not to think about it too much. A natural supplement for the treatment of anxiety (e.g. Seredyn) can be helpful. In my case, regular exercise and a warm shower just before sex did wonders.

The best advice I can give you is this: go see a urologist. Self medication is always a risk.

[laviewpoint]

Ok, first of all you have to go to an urologist and get your prostate checked first. If nothing comes up there, then my guess is a psychological issue. Don't worry about the firm erections or the wet dreams (I'm 28 and haven't had one for a while), remember that you no longer have the same amount of hormones as you did back when you were 19. So I recommend you to check this site: sexanxiety.com I think you'll clear up your mind, face your fears and solve your problems with this type of reading.

Cheers

[dorbr2]

Hi,

Did you try the sexanxiety.com treatment?
Has it worked?

I'm Have been searching the web for a solution and I found 2 products up until now that seems good but I want the best...

Do you know "Mental Impotence Healer" or "The Eiffel Power Program"?

Thanks!
Dor